The July Issue // Your Love Life // Cheating: It's Not Just For Men Anymore
Cheating: It’s Not Just For Men Anymore
We’ve all heard the story of the deceitful husband betraying his poor wife (cough*Tiger Woods*cough), but new studies show that nearly as many women are cheating as men. So what’s making women step out?
Too much time apart. Men and women both lead busy lives. After work, taking care of the children, the house, and other errands, couples don’t always make time for each other emotionally or physically. A woman looking for a quick fix might find excitement in an affair.
The bruised ego. Whether it’s low self-esteem, an unappreciative partner, or a mid-life crisis, women feeling uncertain of themselves find validation in being found attractive by someone new. They also get a power trip of getting away with it.
They can. The truth is it is easier for the modern woman to cheat than ever before. Business trips and late hours at the office--once the hallmark of the cheating man--are just as applicable to women now. Private email accounts and sexting make it easy to communicate with a lover without your partner finding out. There are even dating websites dedicated to married people looking to hook up. A woman looking for something on the side has more options than ever.
--Amanda Farah
What’s your opinion on cheating? Do you think it’s easier for women nowadays?
Oh yea, cheating is way easier for women now than for men. Mens cheating secrets are almost all out and womens cheating secrets are just beginning. I say that women are tired of being the one cheated on. Its time for som ... moreOh yea, cheating is way easier for women now than for men. Mens cheating secrets are almost all out and womens cheating secrets are just beginning. I say that women are tired of being the one cheated on. Its time for some of us women to have fun until the right man comes along!
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cheetings not easy there is hurt on bout ends but its been my experance that wemon do cheet out lonlyness
guys are players and thats a fact so girls don't get mad, just played them back!!
i have cheated and i totally agree with the thing about the attention and the love you feel from your guy isn't there you find some quick fix because that is how i felt. I knew he loved me but at times i didn't feel it, ... morei have cheated and i totally agree with the thing about the attention and the love you feel from your guy isn't there you find some quick fix because that is how i felt. I knew he loved me but at times i didn't feel it, to tell you the truth it felt like a rush like i was the sexy girl who is wanted.It wasn't like i found another boyfriend to replace him i just needed to feel that hot feeling again. Today it is easier for a women to cheat not only the increase of free time but the strangth of the power we hold on men is stronger then ever before.
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imm going to tell u the truth.. ive never cheated on any man i was with... but i would sneek a peek at other guys on my own time. no touchy touchy jus looking not wanting.. i keep my toughts to myself on how i check'em o ... moreimm going to tell u the truth.. ive never cheated on any man i was with... but i would sneek a peek at other guys on my own time. no touchy touchy jus looking not wanting.. i keep my toughts to myself on how i check'em out..
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yes cheating is easy for a woman! At least it was for me....
its easier because men dont care aboutg their women too much
I HATE myself for being a part of this, i regreat everything now im paying for that, and my man still wants to be w me, but i cant find a way to make him look me the same or even make him feel good about him self, its li ... moreI HATE myself for being a part of this, i regreat everything now im paying for that, and my man still wants to be w me, but i cant find a way to make him look me the same or even make him feel good about him self, its like every little o big thing i do for him, he finds a way to related to that past, i hate myself for the hurt i made
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Women cheat on der spouses when they don't get that attention they want...or they are not appreciated for the things we do...
my husband knows everything about me if i slept with a nother man he would know if im see n sum1 eles he would now, besides i think cheat n is 4 suckers, u real beat and have vary litte love 4 self. dats 4 men as whell a ... moremy husband knows everything about me if i slept with a nother man he would know if im see n sum1 eles he would now, besides i think cheat n is 4 suckers, u real beat and have vary litte love 4 self. dats 4 men as whell as women.
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MY opiinion is its only easier 4 women 2 cheat because their men dnt pay much attention to their habbits r their body r body language. if your having sex with another man your man should know that if hes into you. if you ... moreMY opiinion is its only easier 4 women 2 cheat because their men dnt pay much attention to their habbits r their body r body language. if your having sex with another man your man should know that if hes into you. if your just see n another man your attitude changes. so its not easier 4 us 2 cheat. so dnt think ur get n away with it ya man jus not pay n att, r he jus dnt care cause he do n him. ya digg
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cheating is easier for girls ! (: ?
I've only cheated once, & I still regret it! He never found out about it though.
yes esspecially for beautiful women like me i dont but i want to know if its still considered cheating if someone comes up that likes u nd kisses u because thats happened twice to me nd my bf dumped me i didnt ask for it ... moreyes esspecially for beautiful women like me i dont but i want to know if its still considered cheating if someone comes up that likes u nd kisses u because thats happened twice to me nd my bf dumped me i didnt ask for it i didnt want it to happen the 1st was an ex nd the 2nd was a yummy black guy after the 1st incident i never talked to my ex the 2nd this guy is calling me wen ever i tell him to well wut my bf nd i broke up but my bf still wants to be friends nd i dont i went to get some stuff from him nd he was lookin real good im confused 1st i did something wrong but he wants to be friends?
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i think CHEATING IS EASIER FOR GIRLS, iN MY OPINION, GIRLS ARE SLICK AND CAN FIND WAYS TO GET AWAY WITH CHEATING OR LIEING.
Cheating is definetly easier for women nowadays coz they are career minded than before & usually they do it with colleagues. Just because someone has cheated on u doesnt mean u have to stoop to their level
Yes, i believe that it is easy for women to cheat now than ever... women are now in doctor offices and construction workers breaking the glass ceiling... women used to be stay at home wives now they can go out and live ... moreYes, i believe that it is easy for women to cheat now than ever... women are now in doctor offices and construction workers breaking the glass ceiling... women used to be stay at home wives now they can go out and live life just as men which makes it easy for women to meet and work or be around men more than usaul or should i say than before.
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I think cheating is stupid and it just causes more problems. If you are not happy, just tell them or end the relationship. Its not worth all the problems and consequences that come along with being dishonest.
If a guy cheats on you without you taking revenge, I believe you'll gain more respect from others and yourself. I take pride in not taking revenge.
Yes, a woman can cheat easier than a guy in my opinion. We don't have the need to go around and brag about our conquests the way guys do. But you mainly hear about the guy whose doing the cheating. All you gotta do is tu ... moreYes, a woman can cheat easier than a guy in my opinion. We don't have the need to go around and brag about our conquests the way guys do. But you mainly hear about the guy whose doing the cheating. All you gotta do is turn on Maury. Its either about cheating or whose my baby daddy. The only bad thing about women cheating is that we let our emotions get in the way like we do everything. I wish I could have feelings like a guy and not care or not worry about stuff. Life would be so much easier.
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