The July Issue // Your Love Life // The New Dating Rules!
The New Dating Rules: 10 Rules that change the game
Don’t ask him out. Don’t pick up the tab. And, whatever you do, wait at least three days before calling. When it comes to dating, everyone and their mama has probably given you their unsolicited two cents. But truth be told, all advice is not created equal. While you focus on getting the guy, let us school you on ten new school rules to follow.
1. DO let him foot the bill. But if he can’t, don’t trip, the recession is real. Figure out beforehand if he’s handling things, if you’re going dutch, or if it’s--oh no!--on you. If you do end up paying, be very clear (in that sweet way of yours) that you don’t plan on making it a habit. No sir.
2. DON'T hide your smarts. But damn, don’t make him feel like he’s in class either. Totally be you, of course, but not so overwhelming that he feels like an imbecile. So what if he can’t pronounce Foie Gras—who can?
3. DO ask him interesting questions. Not just “What’s your sign?” (Although some of us think that matters a bit too). Try something like, “What do you really want out of life?” or “Are you looking for an open relationship?” If he is, well, let it do what it do.
4. DON'T talk about past relationships. Telling him about your cheating ex is the quickest way to send a guy running. Seriously. Don’t do it.
5. DO keep it short and sweet. Wrap it up on a high note. It signals your time is valuable and keeps him intrigued. Yes, mystery wins!
6. DON'T feel obligated to smooch. There is no rule that says seal a date with a kiss. If you’re not feeling it, give him a hug—and maybe a Tic Tac.
7. DO carry your own condoms. There’s nothing sleazy about being responsible. If you decide to have sex, do it on your terms. Needless to say, there’s no exception to this rule.
8. DON'T send text messages during a date. Rude = turn off. If you have to use your phone, excuse yourself. If your Blackberry is on the table, you better have really important business. Like, really important.
9. DO expect a phone call. If he doesn’t call you after the date within a day or two, keep it moving. And, no, Facebook and Twitter messages absolutely, unequivocally, don’t count.
10. DON'T take these rules too seriously. After all, rules were meant to be broken (except #7). Lighten up--dating is supposed to be fun.
1. Don't misreperesent yourself. A good relationship can be ruined by lies Have confidence in yourself and what your about. Be honest. 2. Don't be anxious, Take it one step at a time, If it's ment to happen, everythi ... more1. Don't misreperesent yourself. A good relationship can be ruined by lies
Have confidence in yourself and what your about. Be honest.
2. Don't be anxious, Take it one step at a time, If it's ment to happen, everything
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hahahah i love the #7 tip ♥ verrrrrrrry safe and sound Ü
uqh i hate that! when guys text during your date. thats wy i nevr do it.
Ive done # 4.... but he wanted to know so is that still considered me beinq guilty? i've text durinq a date & yup your right they dont like it and its very rude..... so i do my best not to text while were out....(:
rule number 7: the condom thing i dont think its a good idea because WHAT IF the guy thinks that the girl is a *H to the O,R, E" bringing her own condoms, is it really a good idea TYRA ?
thanks tyra ... very good rules... thanks
vey good rules love #10 lol i'm guilty of #8. sorry but i love my phone i'll try to stop.
very good rules! I have a boyfriend and i hate when he txts while hes with me... hes with his friends ALL THE TIME! he can wait to txt them back! Im not sexualy active yet but if u carry your own condoms although safe ... morevery good rules! I have a boyfriend and i hate when he txts while hes with me... hes with his friends ALL THE TIME! he can wait to txt them back!
Im not sexualy active yet but if u carry your own condoms although safe wouldnt that seem a little slutty?(no offence to anyone) I think they can wait.
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Thanks for the tips:)
very interesting stuff =)
awesome tips!!! thank you so very much!
my fav is rule # 10....go Ty Ty
Like I mention on the Dating Dummies it applies to this also 1. Never misrepresent yourself, A good relationship can be ruined by lies 2. Don't be anxious, take it one step at a time. If it's ment to happen everything wi ... moreLike I mention on the Dating Dummies it applies to this also
1. Never misrepresent yourself, A good relationship can be ruined by lies
2. Don't be anxious, take it one step at a time. If it's ment to happen everything
will fall into place.
3. Don't let nervouse cause you to talk to much about yourself, You have two
ears and one mouth so listen twice as mutch as you talk.
4. Calls are best made between 9 am and 9 pm unless specified otherwise
(Common curtosy)
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This is great advice!! It reminds me of the movie "He's Just Not that Into You" My friends and I talk about this often encouraging each other to wait to see him coming after you with the calls and offering to spend more ... moreThis is great advice!! It reminds me of the movie "He's Just Not that Into You" My friends and I talk about this often encouraging each other to wait to see him coming after you with the calls and offering to spend more time with you and don't be denial if he isn't taking these actions...Just like the song..it's time to go "On to the Next One"..lol..We women should embrace our beauty and worth and not put all of our eggs in one basket until a man shows that he's worth that much your time and energy! Mwauhh!!
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Thanks a lot miss Tyra, i will add this to my next move. Especially the #3.
im sorry i dont believe in rules.. when it comes to love.. u dont make rules when u fall in love... u dont say.. i should do this to impress him.. il do this to blah blah blah.. the thrill in love is that'.. its mysterio ... moreim sorry i dont believe in rules.. when it comes to love.. u dont make rules when u fall in love... u dont say.. i should do this to impress him.. il do this to blah blah blah.. the thrill in love is that'.. its mysterious,.. its magical.. its spontaneous... how could u enjoy a date setting too much rules on it'.. sometimes.. just get lost in it... feel it... thats the secret!!!.. dating is not a mathematical problem or philosophy problem to analyze.. it just requires to individuals.. interested with each other..
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hahaha #2 is funny!... I dated this guy who--how should i say?--not very smart and he always thought I was making fun of him. I corrected him a lot & he got sooo offended. Well geez, I thought I was doing the guy a favor ... morehahaha #2 is funny!... I dated this guy who--how should i say?--not very smart and he always thought I was making fun of him. I corrected him a lot & he got sooo offended. Well geez, I thought I was doing the guy a favor by not allowing him to speak such stupidity!
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geeez, You can always count on Tyra to spice things up with regards to love and romance........damn, I love you Tyra, and girl these rules definitely say "I've been around, learn from me." thanks momma Tyra.
I love the advice on your show specially when Andrew is on it
I feel that a man will treat you the way you allow him to treat you.