The July Issue // Your Love Life // Romantic Rendezvous Rut?
Romantic Rendezvous Rut?
Here are 5 ways to spice up your love life!
Written By: Robyn Baskin
Stuck in a dating rut? Tired of the usual dinner and a movie? Whether it’s your first date or you’re practically married, these out of the box dates will get that heart rate pumping and get you on track to falling in l-o-v-e.
1. Go to a stand-up comedy show! Laughs = love, people!
Take it from Tyra:
"I went on a blind date with a guy to a stand-up comedy club and we ended up dating for over a year. It was one of the best first dates I have ever been on! Sure we laughed at the comedian, but we spent most of the night laughing at each other. We actually got yelled at by the bouncer for laughing too much- in fact, we almost got kicked out!! I think that the fun atmosphere made it easy to open up. Plus after the date we had plenty to talk about. He didn’t turn out to be the man of my dreams, but I’ll never forget that date!”
2. Get your amusement park on! Roller-coast your way into his heart. Thrilling rides will get both of your heart rates pumping. This is super important on the first (or any) date. When you raise your heart rate, it gives you the same feeling as falling in love!! Parks usually have long lines for the best rides, which makes for lots of time to talk and get to know each other. So get over that fear of heights, grab his hand and get on the scariest ride at the park!
3. STRIKE! Go bowling! Whether you are a pro or in need of bumpers, you and your date are sure to have plenty to talk about. Bet that whoever get’s the low score has to buy the pizza for the night. Having too much fun to stop (which we’re pretty will happen)? Make it best out of 3!
4. Skate date! Strap on those ice or roller skates and glide your way to a picture perfect date. At the very least, you’ll get to hold hands while you try to keep each other on your feet!
5. Take a dance lesson. Salsa, ballroom, tango- it’s up to you. Let the music guide you. You’re guaranteed to get that heart going when you are arm in arm with your new flame!
What’s the best date you’ve ever been on? We want to hear all about it!! Share your experience in the comment section!













































me and this guy had our first date at a kareoke club and it was so much fun, although we can't hold a note even if it was in our hands.
Good tips :) I would try all of them except the rides... i HAATE rollercoasters their scary!
The best date I had was with my boyfriend now of almost a year. It was summer time and hot so what better way to cool off than to eat ice cream! He took me to Dairy Queen and we had ice cream and took a walk to the park ... moreThe best date I had was with my boyfriend now of almost a year. It was summer time and hot so what better way to cool off than to eat ice cream! He took me to Dairy Queen and we had ice cream and took a walk to the park in our neighborhood and sat and just talked all afternoon into the evening. I had never done anything like that before and I had so much fun, it was also an opportunity to get to know each other
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Ok i went ice skating and we were holding hands and we were so cute and then he leans down to kiss me and i turn my face and kiss hischeek and give him a flirty smile then later a slow song comes on and we kiss it was pe ... moreOk i went ice skating and we were holding hands and we were so cute and then he leans down to kiss me and i turn my face and kiss hischeek and give him a flirty smile then later a slow song comes on and we kiss it was perfect!!!
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Best date was dinner and a movie. And it was wit my current boyfriend, out of a couple dates I had, he was the only one that paid everything. After our date we hugged and well we talked everyday after that and now obvio ... moreBest date was dinner and a movie. And it was wit my current boyfriend, out of a couple dates I had, he was the only one that paid everything. After our date we hugged and well we talked everyday after that and now obviously we are together lol. We have been together for a year and almost8 months
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I'll tell you honestly, I've only been on one date in my entire life and it was the WORST. We decided to see a movie and first, he was texting his friends through out the whole thing, and then left me in the theater to w ... moreI'll tell you honestly, I've only been on one date in my entire life and it was the WORST. We decided to see a movie and first, he was texting his friends through out the whole thing, and then left me in the theater to watch the movie by myself for about 15 mins. Then he tried taking me to a nice restaraunt for dinner but the line-up was so long he went and took me to McDonald's.. mmm, gets better... he then proceeded to drive by a spot where he said he took girls from his school to at lunch time to do "certain favours" for him. UGH, I was disgusted. You bet I didn't call him for a second.
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I've not yet found the person i will be going out with now, but surely when i get one which i know will not be long i will definitely go to all the interesting places we have in Ghana with him. Ghana has beautiful places ... moreI've not yet found the person i will be going out with now, but surely when i get one which i know will not be long i will definitely go to all the interesting places we have in Ghana with him. Ghana has beautiful places to go to and i will go with him any where. Thanks for the advice!!!!
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these are great tips girl,but the problem with Zimbabwe is that we dont have most of these facilities u were talkin bwt,but i will play around and tell u how it went...if i have met the person to do that with..!!!
how cute. ^^
The first and only date I have been on was the usual Dinner and a movie... But over dinner it was great, we were laughing, we even shared/fed each other dessert. Very romantic. 3yrs later we are married. :) So I say the ... moreThe first and only date I have been on was the usual Dinner and a movie... But over dinner it was great, we were laughing, we even shared/fed each other dessert. Very romantic. 3yrs later we are married. :) So I say the date went well, lol.
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i had my best date with my boyfriend, having dinner in a nice restaurant, then we went to a video k bar, we sang our favorite music, and drink some beer...
the best date i have ever had was the first time i met my husband. when we were dating we used to go for dinner on a restaurant next to the beach and after dinner we would walk on the beach and hold hands and talk for a ... morethe best date i have ever had was the first time i met my husband. when we were dating we used to go for dinner on a restaurant next to the beach and after dinner we would walk on the beach and hold hands and talk for a long time. then after that we would go back to the restaurant and have desert, and share a spoon. it was so romantic and i will never forget those days as it was the best dates i ever had.
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the best date i went on was with my current boyfriend at the time i did not have a phone and i wrote his number on my g unit sneaker, the fun part is that he was just himself and i loved him more for that, he may not be ... morethe best date i went on was with my current boyfriend at the time i did not have a phone and i wrote his number on my g unit sneaker, the fun part is that he was just himself and i loved him more for that, he may not be the slim sexy guy with abbs, he is chubby, buff, and has a deep voice, my God i love him like that, we have been together now for four years, and though i travel the world because of school, when i go back home i find the same Nicky i fell in love with four years ago. yes we do have problems but they only make us stronger. i love him alot.
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the best date ive been was going fishing with my fiance a relaxing day at the lake and playin with worms i know it sounds strange but as a country girl i like the simple things and fishings one of them
I like doing all those things except for skating (I'm not very good at it) but I've actually NEVER been on a real date. I'm 21 and I'll probably never go on a date. I've had boyfriends but we were either too young or too ... moreI like doing all those things except for skating (I'm not very good at it) but I've actually NEVER been on a real date. I'm 21 and I'll probably never go on a date. I've had boyfriends but we were either too young or too broke.
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The best date i went on was valentine's day in my boyfriends back yard!! a blanket was spread, candles out, champagne being cooled, nice slow music and my favorite " Pork Chops"!!!! Do i need to say anymore?
believe it or not Tyra, i did go ice sk8ing w/ my crush once that i've known 4 a couple yrs & i thot he liked me back alot considering he txted me like evryday evry min until i was 2 tired & went 2 sleep & i always caugh ... morebelieve it or not Tyra, i did go ice sk8ing w/ my crush once that i've known 4 a couple yrs & i thot he liked me back alot considering he txted me like evryday evry min until i was 2 tired & went 2 sleep & i always caught him staring @ me lol... but it turned out that wen he went 2 minnisota 4 a vaca he met this other girl that he told me about while he was ovr there & wen he came hm after a wk of knowing her he txted me & sed that he wants 2 date her.... he broke my heart but i got ovr it real quick, guess he wasnt the 1 for me :)
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I would say my best date so far would have to be a double date i went on , we went to the park and had a silly string fight and then went to a bible study it was alot of fun.
The first two are priceless! I will def acquire them in my dating plans! : )
Hey Tyra... do you have the hook up? Seriously! I have been single for over three years and I think it's getting to me.... I really need a family but then again I don't have a boyfriend... if I am looking a boyfriend; ... moreHey Tyra... do you have the hook up? Seriously! I have been single for over three years and I think it's getting to me.... I really need a family but then again I don't have a boyfriend... if I am looking a boyfriend; hell yes.... hook me up Tyra pleaseeeeeeee......
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